In 2011, the Sister Wives Blog started out as a place to talk about the TLC reality show "Sister Wives", Kody Brown and his wives Christine, Robyn, Meri and Janelle. Today we not only discuss the show, we discuss Polygamy in our society, and the public perceptions of the Mormon Religion. We discuss "Polygamy USA" and will be covering "My 5 Wives."
This blog is geared towards the adult reader, so please, no one under the age of 18 years. Thank you!
The other wives, especially Meri and Janelle don't look too thrilled about Kody giving Christine a gift to feel special. That's just weird, IMO, that he'd have one wife carry a surprise git for another.
I just happened to be flitting by and WOW! Why didn't this clip make it on the show? Umm....got to agree you you Piliocolobus about something fishy. Meri looks like she finally realized she'd been played for a fool when she agreed to take in Ysabel!
Yes, why show that on TV? He is SUCH A JERK! Show on TV that you are buying something 'SPECIAL' for one wife, while the others look on. That should be done in private, and not discussed with the others. Does he go and get something a little special for the wives often? Doesn't seem like that, and it seems like he did it in front of the cameras so people could go 'isn't that sweet?'
No way are these women close, they live every day of their life now wondering what their husband is doing with the other wives on their day. What a horrible way to live every day. These women do not trust each other, do not want to share a home with each other...but they will share their husband, go figure. You can't tell me that "The Kodster" has 4 separate, intimate, personal feelings he shares with each of his wives...NO WAY! So when they are having their "private" time, the poor women probably wonder "Is this what he does with ________? Goodnight! It is just not humanly possible not to have such jealous and bad feelings toward the others.
"Did you like your watch?" Kody sounded like he was talking to a child when he said that. Watch isn't going to fix the fact that he is a complete and utter douche.
My take on this is it was Kody's simple-minded attempt to try and resolve Christine's feelings that she had expressed earlier this season about not feeling special now that Robyn has come along. Just count how many times during that clip that Kody uttered the phrase about wanting to make Christine feel special.
Geee Kody, why don't ya go and get your wife a cheap watch. That oughta make up for her deep seeded feelings of inadequacy and jealousy she has kept inside for the last 17 years or so. Boob!! (Although in his defense, I've witnessed many monogamous husbands attempt to smooth over a serious problem in a similar fashion LOL)
- I've never seen a woman get THAT excited over multi-band watches. Just proves to me how dire of a relationship they have if THAT almost brings her to tears (she must be just aching to feel special and loved)
- Meri and Janelle were completely un-impressed. I'd say Meri was probably more upset about the fact that Robyn was "in" and she wasn't
- Robyn is smiling because she still comes out on top - she a) was the only one "special" enough to know about the surprise and b) looks like the better wife because she is truly "happy" for Christine while the others are sulking
I guess I'm kinda shocked that Robyn DIDN'T come right out and take credit for the gift or for telling Kody to buy it for Christine. Since she has done that so many times in the past, i.e. (while on their honeymoon) "I told Kody to call Janelle even though he didn't want to."
He talked to her like a dog when he was giving her that watch. Wow.
Are you a good girl? Do you like a watchy watchy?
Meri looked like she was going to stab me through the camera. Dang!
This clip is really sad. These women are so desperate for tiny bits of affection and love. It's pretty pathetic. I felt bad for all of them with this pathetic clip.
Okay, I don't have a particularly 'gifty' relationship, so I can understand getting very excited about a simple gift. In that sense, it was a nice gesture. And this isn't a very good comparison, but my siblings and I are adults and can handle our parents getting one of us a gift from time to time. It all evens out in the end, and I hope that Kody can say the same.
If I had (more) time to waste, I'd re-watch and see how many times K-dawg mentions the 'timing' of the gift. It's a watch, we get the pun, move on.
HOLY MOLEY! That clip keeps going! Kody wants in vitro with Meri??? WTF??!!!??
Are these brood mares or what? You have a gazillion kids, buddy? Is that really not enough. Or did you just want to make her feel like shit next to the newer model?
Wow. Meri and Janelle's faces. (Might be part of why it wasn't on the show?) I totally agree Robyn probably is able to keep a smiling face because she consoles herself with the reminder that she was the one Kody chose as his confidant in his secret. Janelle looked like she was thinking about their finite resources, and Meri looked like she just figured out Kody isn't telling her things like he used to. That really has to hurt. Watching things like this makes me want to be excited for Christine, and then I think about how it must feel as one of the other wives, and then I feel sad for them. You can almost literally see them swallow and mentally remind themselves that this arrangement is for their own good (according to their religion).
She didn't? hmmmmmm. Christine is usally the totally annoying one when they are out talking, especially the talk shows. Well, she was super annoying this show too-watchless, GOOD CATCH!
Meri looks like she is shutting in her anger. Anyone notice that? She almost looked catatonic, and Janelle looked like, This is SOOOO stupid. Spend unnecessary money on Christine to make her feel special.
Seriously, the look on Meri's face. Who couldn't see that coming? Wether we're right or not, sooner or later Meri Barber Brown is going to figure out that Robyn took her place in the family. The confidant, the overseer- we all know it is coming. Personally, I have NEVER seen Meri looked so pissed on TV. IMO she is one who is very aware of the camera and tries to stay light. SHE LOOKED PISSED to me!
I'm new to this site,and I really enjoy reading all the comments. This is probably a question that has been answered way in the past, but like I said, I'm new. Question: How do all the wives have the last name of Brown if he is only legally married to Meri. Did the rest just do a name change after their spiritual marriage/sealing?
Replaced her with a younger version..? Naw.... that can't be.imagine that all in the name of being godly ha ha who's foolin who. notice the clenched fists. @1.24 Wonder what that means.
bamaview....Robyn does not have the name Brown, although she uses it. hers is Sullivan. She mentioned she couldn't "afford" a name change yet, which is (laughable).
All Christine and Janelle had to do was fill out some simple forms and pay the fee to change their name.
It seems to me that Kody only did this for HIS benefit and I doubt seriously it was his idea. “I did it for no reason at all”, whatever! Then he follows that up with “I did it because you were blue.” A true gift for the reasons he states would have been something more personal than a watch and would have been given in private, a moment just between them.
Here is my question/observation…With the exception of Robyn, whose motives are obvious, these women seem bright and caring and giving, so if they truly believe in this faith, is the choice of a man who is also a believer so slim that that they all got “stuck” with Kody…I just don’t see the attraction.
I know huh! But think about it. Meri was the one who brought robyn into the fold. Why? Hmmm Christine was pregnant! Bingo! meri thought that getting Robyn in would get Kody out of Christine. She doesnt have to worry about janelle, and i suspect she never did. I think Meri is so jelous of christine that she brought Robyn in just to take away from Christine.
Wow...he's such an egomaniac. Pull yourself together girl, it's just a flipping watch! Meri did not look pleased (she totally wanted the special watch with those cool bands). Seriously though, I find it sad to see how needy they are for his attention and how giddy they become when he throws them a bone.
Anon 2:21 I totally agree!! Meri now is reaping what she sowed but was willing to sacrifice in order to uproot Christine from her "special" place. Meri is PISSED about any affirmation Christine receives. I guarantee the viewers don't know the half of it. Once again Kody the Boob does something bonehead thinking it's awesome and the look on Meri's stoic face says it all!
To Anonymous: I think your correct in thinking of the reason Meri brought Robyn into the fold. Good perception. I wondered why she would do that when she admitted previously to having some jealousy issues to overcome. I agree that Cody is definitely in Love with himself. It's too bad he doesn't have more to offer all his children in the way of DNA. He seems to have uncontrolled ADD and Peter Pan syndrome. With those qualities, how can he provide the emotional,financial, and quality time with all who are deserving. It's pretty impossible. Haven't they ever thought of college expenses, braces, money for emergencies, weddings, the list goes on and on......
Responding to above comment. Meri would be jealous of some one pregnant. Women who are preggers get loads of attention. Besides, Christine monopolizes conversations with her opinionated rantings and ravings carrying on about nothing. The rest of the group does not want to interrupt her as it just wouldn't be polite. Christine was also the last wife, and the youngest. She actually used to take care of herself and didn't look like such a frumpy, out of shape, disgruntled, jealous, angry, raving lunatic. That wasn't mean was it?
I agree, I just don't quite get why it would be a thrill for her to bring a new one in to do the same....EXCEPT if you recall, on one show, Meri said Robyn was the sisterwife she never had (as far as closeness) which shocked me at the time, thinking they all got along.
BettleBug, I'll bet you she did. She likes to control situations with a passive aggressive style. When she wants to soak up more lime light, she starts to pout or act like a baby. Her profile looks like a witch. I'm not sure why she gets under my skin so. Maybe it's because I don't like the quality of playing with peoples emotions or being fake.
I think Robyn was "brought in" for the purpose of the show and I really wonder if Meri had that much to do with it. It's obvious that she's been replaced as #1 by Robyn and this clip just validates that even more. Meri is definetly realizing that she's been played for the fool and I wonder if she's re-thinking all this sister wives babble they spew.
Hmmm.. That is a really interesting line you brought up Beetlebug -about Meri saying Robyn was the siterwife she never had... I didn't notice that before but WOW. What does that even mean?
Slightly off topic from this clip, but this bothers me in every show...
I understand that their relgion dictates they should be "covered up" and shouldn't really show their arms, etc. That's totally fine. But why do they have to layer tank tops over long sleeve shirts! It just looks so dumb! Just wear a long sleeved shirt! There's certainly plenty of styles to choose from! They would all look so much better if they would just stop wearing tank tops over shirts!
I think there might be something to this theory that Meri brought Robyn in to divert Kody's attention from Christine. But boy does she look pissed now. Guess her plan totally backfired:
a)Robyn turned out to be a far bigger threat than Christine.
b)Now Kody's all into Robyn and only let Robyn in on his special gift plan.
c)I personally think Christine is gonna have another baby and Robyn's gonna have more, too.
d)If Kody ever sees the light and realizes Robyn's true character, Christine's gonna go back to being his favourite plus he'll blame Meri for bringing Robyn in.
I think Kody feels best with Christine. Also, it is kinda sad to see how she's so happy abput his gift. It's like she thought he'd forgotten about her and this gift shows her he still cares about her. Really sad.
Seeing Christine so happy over that gift made me sad for her too. She just wants to be loved and to be happy, and she has been brought up to believe that she has to live in this kind of life to please God. For all her loud defense of polygamy, she has been brought face to face with the reality of the losses that take place with each new so-called wife. I would love to see each of these women with her own loving husband who is willing to devote himself to her and her children.
I agree. I also think that WATCHING the other wives interact with Kody on the show is hard. Otherwise, I think they can pretend it doesn't happen so much.
Oh my Lord Meri's look is priceless. And how many bands can one cheap ass watch have? Was it 6? They both managed to drop it on the floor. Robyn obviously brought a lot of Target long sleeve T's and baby doll shirts for a 4 day trip.
Kodouche and Robyn were probably conspiring at a cheapo Vegas gift shop stand saying, "hey, if we buy Christine this cheap watch set, this can buy us more time together playing hide the salami."
Pickledpolly, That would be Dana Carvey as The Church Lady. I still watch the videos for a good laugh. I personally feel that the "jump the shark (not in the religious sense Christine!) show is just around the corner. I've stopped watching it because it's obviously staged and is basically another trash tv reality show. I often wonder why we don't see as many Einsteins, Edisons, Picassos etc as much these days. I think the reason is what we're subjecting ourselves to on our tv screens. I'm personally praying for the death of (un)reality tv.
Oh I completely agree with Christine previously being the favorite and Meri looking to divert attention from her. Meri and Christine have obvious animosity. That is why Christine is so upset this season, she has always been the favorite wife, the special one and it's killing her that Robyn is now. This entire situation is just so so sad. These women have zero idea what they deserve. Kody is an egotistical baby! Oh he drives me crazy, he only thinks of Kody. Selfish, icky man. It's sad to me that Janelle isn't a threat or even on the other wives radars except for being the financial provider. She is my favorite and I hope she leaves Kody's sorry ass.
You are onto something there. As far as the couple with the best chance of working, Kody and Christine obviously have the best chemistry and a similar immaturity. Of course, they and Robyn are more like children to the 2 adults in this situation - Meri and Janelle.
Robyn stole Christine's crown. She is getting the special attention that used to be all Christine's. Robyn is working hard to be the real soul mate, but it isn't going to take. Kody and Christine click too well. They both are such attention hogs.
How far down has Janelle buried her feelings and needs? If she lost weight and found a job again, Janelle would outshine all the other wives.
My fantasy for this family is that Meri comes out of the closet and becomes a gay marriage activist. Janelle blossoms into the gorgeous, intelligent woman she really is and thrives with a new man and a wonderful job. Christine runs away with Kody to sell Amway full time together. Robyn is forced to marry back into the Jessup family and live on some compound because she has no other skill.
Yep, that was WEIRD!...Meri was not happy or impressed! Hopefully, slowly but surely, her eyes & mind are becoming wide open. Maybe were not giving Meri enough credit...bc maybe, just maybe she's waiting til Kodys bank account is overflowing before she strikes & slaps him with a divorce & gets 1/2 of everything. Unless Kody hides his $$ &assets with the other wives so she gets nothing ;/ bc it surely seems that Kody & Robyn are secret about a lot of things...too sketchy!! Anon 11:43am, sad to say but Christine always have looked preggers, after having Truely..lol but I already called Robyn to be prego again around the holidays, since its her turn & duty to keep thr brood growing... lol
Wow! Meri looked MAD! I just rewatched the clip and watched just her face and at no time does she smile or even hint that she might want to.
Robyn of course is annoying as ever and happy to be "in on it". For sure she is Kody's favorite and I agree with many of you that she probably gave Kody the idea.
Weird that he had to "hide" the watch in Robyn's luggage. Why noy put it in his own luggage? Telling Robyn was almost like "getting back at her" for when Christine was in labor & Robyn had Kody stop to kiss her on the way to the hosptal. Now it's the other prego lady's turn to be on the sidelines. It was sweet that Christine looked so happy but sad that Kody kinda made it all about himself & how much he just "did it for no reason" (except to buy her happiness). It took away from it. He was looking for a pat on the head for being "so thoughtful" for no reason. I agree Meri & Janelle aren't looking too thrilled, it was awkward. If hubby tried to buy my happiness he would pay big time for even thinking he could try. Apologies, time, love, attention, those are required when I'm blue. Jewelry, flowers, etc,those are "just because" gifts that should never be cheapened in an attempt to buy happiness. p.s please excuse spelling/grammar mistakes. am typin one handed, not working out that well. lol.
I am new to this blog. I tried to put my name in but, it just calls me "Unknown" for some reason. I will try and fix that. Anyhow, I do actually like the show but I also like coming over to this site to see what others think. I totally noticed that Meri looked really mad about the watch. Not just upset but mad. Lisa
"i got it for you, no reason but because i love ya"
he had to make a big deal that he got his wife a gift instead of being humble he wants some ridiuclous praise from christine. omg this guy is such a dope.
I think it is obvious that Meri is mad because she thinks Christine has misbehaved by being jealous and unloving to Meri's favorite wife: Robyn, and she doesn't deserve a gift.
This is such a bad situation. Christine truly loves Kody; in a little girl crush sort of way. Not in a mature long time love sort of way. When one shares their husband there is not the intimacy that one has when they are ONE with their spouse. When all their experiences are shared, including sexual experiences; when hopes and dreams and fears and frusterations are shared with their soul mate, when they work through problems together as a team, a husband and wife knit their souls together, so that they are one garment. A man can not do that with more than one woman. He can not have that kind of soul fulfilling love affair with more than one woman, when he sees each wife maybe twice a week. He can not keep ripping apart the garment of marriage and resewing it to another piece of cloth..being one with that cloth, then cutting himself away again. Soon all of the cloths become ragged and frayed.
Christine is fraying.
Christine was willing to share Kody and was happy with her life, because she was young and idolized Kody. She was the 'new toy', she was the favorite for so long...then, along comes a new girl. A younger girl and a new favorite. Now she knows how Meri and Janelle felt all those years that she was the favorite. But, it is no comfort. She needs to realise that there will be more wives. Meri and Robyn are just a little twisted, and they will insist that Kody marry others. And Christine, will be ridiculed and will feel weak and useless, for being upset and 'jealous' at being cast aside...when these are actually very natural, correct feelings! It is normal to feel bad about sharing your husband! It is wrong to share him....So, poor Christine, she will no longer be "special"...she will just be one of many, like she is now. She is not her own person, she is "Kody's 3rd wife" she is a possession and not 'special' to anyone. That is her identity for 'eternity'.
It is not true of course. She is very special! She is a great person and very special to her kids. She isn't just "one of the moms" to her kids or Janelle's kids. She is special to them. She is also special to Jesus Christ. He loves her like no husband ever could! And she doesn't have to know a secret handshake to be accepted by Him! All she has to do is believe in Him and trust Him, He did all the work to get her into His kingdom. She is special just because of who she is, not because she is a plural wife. She is a valuable person who deserves better than what she is living.
The other wives, especially Meri and Janelle don't look too thrilled about Kody giving Christine a gift to feel special. That's just weird, IMO, that he'd have one wife carry a surprise git for another.
ReplyDeleteMaybe that's how he makes up to his wives when he calls out someone else's name in bed?
ReplyDeleteOne blingy watch: $39.99
ReplyDeleteTrip to Boston: $399.99
Meri's face during the video: FREAKIN PRICELESS
I agree Frontal Lobe - Meri and Janelle!!!!
ReplyDeleteJealous much?
I thought it was sweet, and nice Robyn was in on it.
ReplyDeleteThere was something fishy going on there.
ReplyDeleteI just happened to be flitting by and WOW! Why didn't this clip make it on the show? Umm....got to agree you you Piliocolobus about something fishy. Meri looks like she finally realized she'd been played for a fool when she agreed to take in Ysabel!
ReplyDeleteI would say keep the watch, but I'll take the Lexus ... Then I would feel special
ReplyDeleteYes, why show that on TV? He is SUCH A JERK! Show on TV that you are buying something 'SPECIAL' for one wife, while the others look on. That should be done in private, and not discussed with the others. Does he go and get something a little special for the wives often? Doesn't seem like that, and it seems like he did it in front of the cameras so people could go 'isn't that sweet?'
ReplyDeleteIt must be hard feeling special as a sister wife.
ReplyDeleteCynical Jinx- what do you think of the ladies' dynamics? Reading in between the lines I mean.
ReplyDeleteDo you think that any of the are really close?
I know they are close like, oh, cousins, where you would care if another got hurt...
But how could you be "best friends" with someone who was shooping your partner?
No way are these women close, they live every day of their life now wondering what their husband is doing with the other wives on their day. What a horrible way to live every day. These women do not trust each other, do not want to share a home with each other...but they will share their husband, go figure. You can't tell me that "The Kodster" has 4 separate, intimate, personal feelings he shares with each of his wives...NO WAY! So when they are having their "private" time, the poor women probably wonder "Is this what he does with ________? Goodnight! It is just not humanly possible not to have such jealous and bad feelings toward the others.
Delete"Did you like your watch?" Kody sounded like he was talking to a child when he said that. Watch isn't going to fix the fact that he is a complete and utter douche.
ReplyDeleteWhy does Robyn have to be in on everything!!! I mean really. She has got to be a terrible sister wive...Meri and Janelle looked peeved
ReplyDeleteMy take on this is it was Kody's simple-minded attempt to try and resolve Christine's feelings that she had expressed earlier this season about not feeling special now that Robyn has come along. Just count how many times during that clip that Kody uttered the phrase about wanting to make Christine feel special.
ReplyDeleteGeee Kody, why don't ya go and get your wife a cheap watch. That oughta make up for her deep seeded feelings of inadequacy and jealousy she has kept inside for the last 17 years or so. Boob!! (Although in his defense, I've witnessed many monogamous husbands attempt to smooth over a serious problem in a similar fashion LOL)
He kept fishing for compliments and thanks too. Wonder if it was Robyn's idea?
ReplyDeleteObservations:
ReplyDelete- I've never seen a woman get THAT excited over multi-band watches. Just proves to me how dire of a relationship they have if THAT almost brings her to tears (she must be just aching to feel special and loved)
- Meri and Janelle were completely un-impressed. I'd say Meri was probably more upset about the fact that Robyn was "in" and she wasn't
- Robyn is smiling because she still comes out on top - she a) was the only one "special" enough to know about the surprise and b) looks like the better wife because she is truly "happy" for Christine while the others are sulking
I guess I'm kinda shocked that Robyn DIDN'T come right out and take credit for the gift or for telling Kody to buy it for Christine. Since she has done that so many times in the past, i.e. (while on their honeymoon) "I told Kody to call Janelle even though he didn't want to."
ReplyDeleteMethinks it is a recycled gift that someone sent Robyn that she didn't care for.
ReplyDelete@anon6:55--I totally agree about Robyn being in on everything !
Apparently Kody has access to their luggage too. Robyn looked a little uncomfortable looking over his shoulder as he opened her case.
ReplyDeleteit looked scripted and the watches were ugly
ReplyDeleteHe talked to her like a dog when he was giving her that watch. Wow.
ReplyDeleteAre you a good girl? Do you like a watchy watchy?
Meri looked like she was going to stab me through the camera. Dang!
This clip is really sad. These women are so desperate for tiny bits of affection and love. It's pretty pathetic. I felt bad for all of them with this pathetic clip.
Watch the video again and check out Meri's face as they pan out in the end. She is pissed, plain and simple.
ReplyDeleteOkay, I don't have a particularly 'gifty' relationship, so I can understand getting very excited about a simple gift. In that sense, it was a nice gesture. And this isn't a very good comparison, but my siblings and I are adults and can handle our parents getting one of us a gift from time to time. It all evens out in the end, and I hope that Kody can say the same.
ReplyDeleteIf I had (more) time to waste, I'd re-watch and see how many times K-dawg mentions the 'timing' of the gift. It's a watch, we get the pun, move on.
That's a nice hotel room!!! Who paid for them gigs?
ReplyDeleteHOLY MOLEY! That clip keeps going! Kody wants in vitro with Meri??? WTF??!!!??
ReplyDeleteAre these brood mares or what? You have a gazillion kids, buddy? Is that really not enough. Or did you just want to make her feel like shit next to the newer model?
Wow. Meri and Janelle's faces. (Might be part of why it wasn't on the show?) I totally agree Robyn probably is able to keep a smiling face because she consoles herself with the reminder that she was the one Kody chose as his confidant in his secret. Janelle looked like she was thinking about their finite resources, and Meri looked like she just figured out Kody isn't telling her things like he used to. That really has to hurt. Watching things like this makes me want to be excited for Christine, and then I think about how it must feel as one of the other wives, and then I feel sad for them. You can almost literally see them swallow and mentally remind themselves that this arrangement is for their own good (according to their religion).
ReplyDeleteOops spelling mistake: confidante in his secret.
ReplyDeleteWait Wait Wait!!!! Did you all notice she wasn't wearing the watch or the bling during the conference which he SAID it was for????
ReplyDeleteSomething is very fishy. Like he is buying her silence about something.
She didn't?
ReplyDeletehmmmmmm.
Christine is usally the totally annoying one when they are out talking, especially the talk shows.
Well, she was super annoying this show too-watchless, GOOD CATCH!
Sorry I forgot to add, she was wearing an old cheap watch with a black band at the conference, NOT the new one and no bling necklace.
ReplyDeleteMeri looks like she is shutting in her anger. Anyone notice that? She almost looked catatonic, and Janelle looked like, This is SOOOO stupid. Spend unnecessary money on Christine to make her feel special.
ReplyDeletePersonally I think it was a sweet gift ruined by Kody's incessant talking.
ReplyDeleteIf these ladies are fuming over that after all these years......lordie.
I wonder why this wasn't on the show?
ReplyDeleteSeriously, the look on Meri's face. Who couldn't see that coming? Wether we're right or not, sooner or later Meri Barber Brown is going to figure out that Robyn took her place in the family. The confidant, the overseer- we all know it is coming. Personally, I have NEVER seen Meri looked so pissed on TV. IMO she is one who is very aware of the camera and tries to stay light. SHE LOOKED PISSED to me!
Kody is annoying in this, isn't he?
ReplyDeleteI'm new to this site,and I really enjoy reading all the comments. This is probably a question that has been answered way in the past, but like I said, I'm new. Question: How do all the wives have the last name of Brown if he is only legally married to Meri. Did the rest just do a name change after their spiritual marriage/sealing?
ReplyDeleteReplaced her with a younger version..? Naw....
ReplyDeletethat can't be.imagine that all in the name of being godly ha ha who's foolin who. notice the clenched fists. @1.24
Wonder what that means.
bamaview....Robyn does not have the name Brown, although she uses it. hers is Sullivan. She mentioned she couldn't "afford" a name change yet, which is (laughable).
ReplyDeleteAll Christine and Janelle had to do was fill out some simple forms and pay the fee to change their name.
It seems to me that Kody only did this for HIS benefit and I doubt seriously it was his idea. “I did it for no reason at all”, whatever! Then he follows that up with “I did it because you were blue.” A true gift for the reasons he states would have been something more personal than a watch and would have been given in private, a moment just between them.
ReplyDeleteHere is my question/observation…With the exception of Robyn, whose motives are obvious, these women seem bright and caring and giving, so if they truly believe in this faith, is the choice of a man who is also a believer so slim that that they all got “stuck” with Kody…I just don’t see the attraction.
Sadly, I think they all thought he was a "catch" which makes the others really scary!
ReplyDeleteWow! Meri is really giving the ole stinkeye.
ReplyDeleteI know huh! But think about it. Meri was the one who brought robyn into the fold. Why? Hmmm Christine was pregnant! Bingo! meri thought that getting Robyn in would get Kody out of Christine. She doesnt have to worry about janelle, and i suspect she never did. I think Meri is so jelous of christine that she brought Robyn in just to take away from Christine.
ReplyDeleteShe cant help it. As a AUB follower it is her job to help procure wombs for her husbands seed.
ReplyDeleteWow...he's such an egomaniac. Pull yourself together girl, it's just a flipping watch! Meri did not look pleased (she totally wanted the special watch with those cool bands). Seriously though, I find it sad to see how needy they are for his attention and how giddy they become when he throws them a bone.
ReplyDeleteAnon 2:21 I totally agree!! Meri now is reaping what she sowed but was willing to sacrifice in order to uproot Christine from her "special" place. Meri is PISSED about any affirmation Christine receives. I guarantee the viewers don't know the half of it. Once again Kody the Boob does something bonehead thinking it's awesome and the look on Meri's stoic face says it all!
ReplyDeleteI don't get it....Why would Meri be jealous of Christine now that everyone knew this would be her last child?????
ReplyDeleteSeems like she'd be jealous of the new one, Robyn, for being pregnant and giving him what she couldn't.
Someone Explain? (please)
To Anonymous:
ReplyDeleteI think your correct in thinking of the reason Meri brought Robyn into the fold. Good perception. I wondered why she would do that when she admitted previously to having some jealousy issues to overcome. I agree that Cody is definitely in Love with himself. It's too bad he doesn't have more to offer all his children in the way of DNA. He seems to have uncontrolled ADD and Peter Pan syndrome. With those qualities, how can he provide the emotional,financial, and quality time with all who are deserving. It's pretty impossible. Haven't they ever thought of college expenses, braces, money for emergencies, weddings, the list goes on and on......
Responding to above comment. Meri would be jealous of some one pregnant. Women who are preggers get loads of attention. Besides, Christine monopolizes conversations with her opinionated rantings and ravings carrying on about nothing. The rest of the group does not want to interrupt her as it just wouldn't be polite. Christine was also the last wife, and the youngest. She actually used to take care of herself and didn't look like such a frumpy, out of shape, disgruntled, jealous, angry, raving lunatic. That wasn't mean was it?
ReplyDeleteBettlebug, the previous post above was for you. Do you agree?
ReplyDeleteI agree, I just don't quite get why it would be a thrill for her to bring a new one in to do the same....EXCEPT if you recall, on one show, Meri said Robyn was the sisterwife she never had (as far as closeness) which shocked me at the time, thinking they all got along.
ReplyDeleteThis one is going to backfire in Meri's face!
I also think Robyn probably got that watch as a gift, and told Kody to do the whole thing.....
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ReplyDeleteI'll bet you she did. She likes to control situations with a passive aggressive style. When she wants to soak up more lime light, she starts to pout or act like a baby. Her profile looks like a witch. I'm not sure why she gets under my skin so. Maybe it's because I don't like the quality of playing with peoples emotions or being fake.
I think Robyn was "brought in" for the purpose of the show and I really wonder if Meri had that much to do with it. It's obvious that she's been replaced as #1 by Robyn and this clip just validates that even more. Meri is definetly realizing that she's been played for the fool and I wonder if she's re-thinking all this sister wives babble they spew.
ReplyDeleteresponding to above; interesting thought. Meri does seem wise to something going on.
ReplyDeleteJust a guess, but I think TLC did the whole thing. Having Kody buy a watch and give it to Christine before the talk, etc.
ReplyDeleteYes, Meri, wow. If looks could kill.
Hmmm.. That is a really interesting line you brought up Beetlebug -about Meri saying Robyn was the siterwife she never had... I didn't notice that before but WOW. What does that even mean?
ReplyDeleteSlightly off topic from this clip, but this bothers me in every show...
ReplyDeleteI understand that their relgion dictates they should be "covered up" and shouldn't really show their arms, etc. That's totally fine. But why do they have to layer tank tops over long sleeve shirts! It just looks so dumb! Just wear a long sleeved shirt! There's certainly plenty of styles to choose from! They would all look so much better if they would just stop wearing tank tops over shirts!
Its so sad how they crave for every tiny bit of affection they get from this guy.
ReplyDeleteI also wonder if he ever does anything alone these days? Without involving Robyn?
I also wonder if he ever does anything alone with one or two kids at a time these days without involving a wife.
ReplyDeleteWho used to say on SNL.....Isn't that Special????
ReplyDeleteI think there might be something to this theory that Meri brought Robyn in to divert Kody's attention from Christine. But boy does she look pissed now. Guess her plan totally backfired:
ReplyDeletea)Robyn turned out to be a far bigger threat than Christine.
b)Now Kody's all into Robyn and only let Robyn in on his special gift plan.
c)I personally think Christine is gonna have another baby and Robyn's gonna have more, too.
d)If Kody ever sees the light and realizes Robyn's true character, Christine's gonna go back to being his favourite plus he'll blame Meri for bringing Robyn in.
I think Kody feels best with Christine. Also, it is kinda sad to see how she's so happy abput his gift. It's like she thought he'd forgotten about her and this gift shows her he still cares about her. Really sad.
Kat - we all think they need a makeover, or just wear long sleeves!
ReplyDeleteI thought that Meri was his favorite before Robyn.
Seeing Christine so happy over that gift made me sad for her too. She just wants to be loved and to be happy, and she has been brought up to believe that she has to live in this kind of life to please God. For all her loud defense of polygamy, she has been brought face to face with the reality of the losses that take place with each new so-called wife. I would love to see each of these women with her own loving husband who is willing to devote himself to her and her children.
ReplyDeleteI agree. I also think that WATCHING the other wives interact with Kody on the show is hard. Otherwise, I think they can pretend it doesn't happen so much.
ReplyDeleteOh my Lord Meri's look is priceless. And how many bands can one cheap ass watch have? Was it 6? They both managed to drop it on the floor. Robyn obviously brought a lot of Target long sleeve T's and baby doll shirts for a 4 day trip.
ReplyDeleteKodouche and Robyn were probably conspiring at a cheapo Vegas gift shop stand saying, "hey, if we buy Christine this cheap watch set, this can buy us more time together playing hide the salami."
ReplyDeletePickledpolly, That would be Dana Carvey as The Church Lady. I still watch the videos for a good laugh. I personally feel that the "jump the shark (not in the religious sense Christine!) show is just around the corner. I've stopped watching it because it's obviously staged and is basically another trash tv reality show. I often wonder why we don't see as many Einsteins, Edisons, Picassos etc as much these days. I think the reason is what we're subjecting ourselves to on our tv screens. I'm personally praying for the death of (un)reality tv.
ReplyDeleteOh I completely agree with Christine previously being the favorite and Meri looking to divert attention from her. Meri and Christine have obvious animosity. That is why Christine is so upset this season, she has always been the favorite wife, the special one and it's killing her that Robyn is now. This entire situation is just so so sad. These women have zero idea what they deserve. Kody is an egotistical baby! Oh he drives me crazy, he only thinks of Kody. Selfish, icky man.
ReplyDeleteIt's sad to me that Janelle isn't a threat or even on the other wives radars except for being the financial provider. She is my favorite and I hope she leaves Kody's sorry ass.
Anon 11:24,
ReplyDeleteYou are onto something there. As far as the couple with the best chance of working, Kody and Christine obviously have the best chemistry and a similar immaturity. Of course, they and Robyn are more like children to the 2 adults in this situation - Meri and Janelle.
Robyn stole Christine's crown. She is getting the special attention that used to be all Christine's. Robyn is working hard to be the real soul mate, but it isn't going to take. Kody and Christine click too well. They both are such attention hogs.
How far down has Janelle buried her feelings and needs? If she lost weight and found a job again, Janelle would outshine all the other wives.
My fantasy for this family is that Meri comes out of the closet and becomes a gay marriage activist. Janelle blossoms into the gorgeous, intelligent woman she really is and thrives with a new man and a wonderful job. Christine runs away with Kody to sell Amway full time together. Robyn is forced to marry back into the Jessup family and live on some compound because she has no other skill.
I think Christine is prego! comments please!
ReplyDeleteYep, that was WEIRD!...Meri was not happy or impressed! Hopefully, slowly but surely, her eyes & mind are becoming wide open. Maybe were not giving Meri enough credit...bc maybe, just maybe she's waiting til Kodys bank account is overflowing before she strikes & slaps him with a divorce & gets 1/2 of everything. Unless Kody hides his $$ &assets with the other wives so she gets nothing ;/ bc it surely seems that Kody & Robyn are secret about a lot of things...too sketchy!!
ReplyDeleteAnon 11:43am, sad to say but Christine always have looked preggers, after having Truely..lol but I already called Robyn to be prego again around the holidays, since its her turn & duty to keep thr brood growing... lol
Kody and Christine reminds me of Donny and Marie Osmond. lol
ReplyDeleteWow! Meri looked MAD! I just rewatched the clip and watched just her face and at no time does she smile or even hint that she might want to.
ReplyDeleteRobyn of course is annoying as ever and happy to be "in on it". For sure she is Kody's favorite and I agree with many of you that she probably gave Kody the idea.
Weird that he had to "hide" the watch in Robyn's luggage. Why noy put it in his own luggage? Telling Robyn was almost like "getting back at her" for when Christine was in labor & Robyn had Kody stop to kiss her on the way to the hosptal. Now it's the other prego lady's turn to be on the sidelines. It was sweet that Christine looked so happy but sad that Kody kinda made it all about himself & how much he just "did it for no reason" (except to buy her happiness). It took away from it. He was looking for a pat on the head for being "so thoughtful" for no reason. I agree Meri & Janelle aren't looking too thrilled, it was awkward. If hubby tried to buy my happiness he would pay big time for even thinking he could try. Apologies, time, love, attention, those are required when I'm blue. Jewelry, flowers, etc,those are "just because" gifts that should never be cheapened in an attempt to buy happiness.
ReplyDeletep.s please excuse spelling/grammar mistakes. am typin one handed, not working out that well. lol.
I'm just testing this to see if I can comment.
ReplyDeleteI am new to this blog. I tried to put my name in but, it just calls me "Unknown" for some reason. I will try and fix that. Anyhow, I do actually like the show but I also like coming over to this site to see what others think. I totally noticed that Meri looked really mad about the watch. Not just upset but mad.
ReplyDeleteLisa
Notice how Kody emphasizes,"For no reason at all." I agree with Pico he is buying silence.
ReplyDelete"i got it for you, no reason but because i love ya"
ReplyDeletehe had to make a big deal that he got his wife a gift instead of being humble he wants some ridiuclous praise from christine. omg this guy is such a dope.
Oh, man. Meri and Janelle's faces are frightening. This family is doomed.
ReplyDeleteThis show reminds me of "The Bachelor" where the guy "dates" 25 girls and goes from one to the other, making them all feel special ...
ReplyDeleteI think it is obvious that Meri is mad because she thinks Christine has misbehaved by being jealous and unloving to Meri's favorite wife: Robyn, and she doesn't deserve a gift.
ReplyDeleteThis is such a bad situation. Christine truly loves Kody; in a little girl crush sort of way. Not in a mature long time love sort of way. When one shares their husband there is not the intimacy that one has when they are ONE with their spouse. When all their experiences are shared, including sexual experiences; when hopes and dreams and fears and frusterations are shared with their soul mate, when they work through problems together as a team, a husband and wife knit their souls together, so that they are one garment. A man can not do that with more than one woman. He can not have that kind of soul fulfilling love affair with more than one woman, when he sees each wife maybe twice a week. He can not keep ripping apart the garment of marriage and resewing it to another piece of cloth..being one with that cloth, then cutting himself away again. Soon all of the cloths become ragged and frayed.
Christine is fraying.
Christine was willing to share Kody and was happy with her life, because she was young and idolized Kody. She was the 'new toy', she was the favorite for so long...then, along comes a new girl. A younger girl and a new favorite. Now she knows how Meri and Janelle felt all those years that she was the favorite. But, it is no comfort. She needs to realise that there will be more wives. Meri and Robyn are just a little twisted, and they will insist that Kody marry others. And Christine, will be ridiculed and will feel weak and useless, for being upset and 'jealous' at being cast aside...when these are actually very natural, correct feelings! It is normal to feel bad about sharing your husband! It is wrong to share him....So, poor Christine, she will no longer be "special"...she will just be one of many, like she is now. She is not her own person, she is "Kody's 3rd wife" she is a possession and not 'special' to anyone. That is her identity for 'eternity'.
It is not true of course. She is very special! She is a great person and very special to her kids. She isn't just "one of the moms" to her kids or Janelle's kids. She is special to them. She is also special to Jesus Christ. He loves her like no husband ever could! And she doesn't have to know a secret handshake to be accepted by Him! All she has to do is believe in Him and trust Him, He did all the work to get her into His kingdom. She is special just because of who she is, not because she is a plural wife. She is a valuable person who deserves better than what she is living.
The above post (and it's metaphorical connotation) is beautifully articulated. Wow.
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