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Saturday, July 23, 2011

Sister Wives: The Concubines of the Cult of Kody Brown

Now here's a different point of view.... 
 
If you want to see another blatant example of social activism at the expense of traditional marriage, go no further than The Learning Channel (TLC). Part of TLC's knowledge-enhancing program lineup is the show featuring polygamist Kody Brown and his ever-growing, Utah-based harem of "Sister Wives." The show is spun as a unique look at a non-traditional family that faces the same struggles as regular folks and manages to make it through life with strong bonds of love and respect. That sounds really nice doesn't it? The truth of this dysfunctional group and their attempts at TV stardom are much darker, and much more dangerous to traditional American culture.

Researching the Kody Brown clan forced me to delve into the TV program. From doing so I discovered that Kody Brown, a sales and advertising agent, married his first wife Meri conventionally in 1990. Since then, Brown has been collecting and impregnating additional concubines, like Janelle, Christine and Robyn, at a consistent rate. Brown's women take on his last name, bear his offspring, and work to pay for the cost of the polygamist lifestyle. The show, Sister Wives, despite being given a positive spin, still highlights the cult-like mentality of polygamy groups.

Kody Brown emanates a shyster vibe that is common with manipulators found in cult settings. He preaches to his bedroom cohorts that they are each individually special and respected while at the same time adding new women to his brothel. Even during the two seasons of Sister Wives so far, Kody Brown has decided that three special wives is just not enough, and has added another woman to his collection. What we have here is one serious jive turkey in Kody Brown running some even more serious jive of some impressionable women. However, if we look at Sister Wives more critically, we can access Brown and the layers of hypocrisy in this show more adequately.

Brown's jive is more clearly seen as a constant manipulation of the women he exploits. Within the Brown polygamy system, he alone receives the carnal benefit of a sexual smorgasbord of duped female lovers, while the women do nothing more than bear and raise his children and sell jelly at the airport. This is truly cult-like activity. It is doubtful that Kody Brown's cherub-like smile would withstand a request from his stable to bring another man into the love circle. I suspect that would spoil the "specialness" of these marriages.

The next example of hypocrisy that screams to be addressed is the fact that this cult is not behind bars. Utah has anti-polygamy laws and this faction has more than written their confession to the crime of polygamy on national television. Where is the law here? One cult leader, four wives, sixteen children and no legal accountability.

Brent Bozell in NewsBusters adequately shows that Kody Brown and his Sister Wives wish to push polygamy into the mainstream culture and are willing to flout the laws of the land to do so. For them, breaking down traditional marriage is more than potentially circumventing the law; it is an attempt to be accepted into a culture that has traditionally been bound by biblical values on the subject. Sister Wives is nothing less than a counterculture advocacy program that undermines biblical values and promotes sexual perversion.

Lastly, and probably the largest example of hypocrisy is that TLC allows itself to be the vehicle for the dissemination, and the accomplice in the crime of polygamy. There is no rational spin that can be forwarded that will decrease their culpability in this attempt to lead the American culture astray on the values of marriage.

Traditional marriage is the cornerstone of America. The guidelines to this institution are firmly and clearly laid out within God's law and are in clear opposition to the Sister Wife lifestyle. To deviate from the cornerstone from which American life springs forth is to guarantee social calamity, suffering and pain. It matters not whether the merchants of deviance wish to push gay marriage, adultery, polygamy or any other cleverly altered variation of this kind. We would be wise to fight it, we would be just to defeat it, and we would be blessed to teach our children to do the same.

(Source: http://www.renewamerica.com/)Paul A. Ibbetson is a former Chief of Police of Cherryvale, Kansas, and member of the Montgomery County Drug Task Force. Paul received his Bachelor's and Master's degree in Criminal Justice at Wichita State University, and is currently completing his PhD. in sociology at Kansas State University. Paul is the author of the books Living Under The Patriot Act: Educating A Society and Feeding Lions: Sharing The Conservative Philosophy In A Politically Hostile World. Paul is also the radio host of the Kansas Broadcasting Association's 2008 and 2009 Entertainment Program of the Year, Conscience of Kansas airing on KSDB Manhattan 91.9 f.m.

Friday, July 22, 2011

When the Kids Travel Without You: How the Sister Wives Deal with Missing Their Teenagers

Here's the latest from TLC.

Meri is Kody Brown's first wife. They have been married since 1990 and have one daughter, Mariah. Their lives in a plural family are featured in TLC's popular program Sister Wives.
It is now July, we have been in Vegas for six months, and guess what I've been doing all weekend? Unpacking and organizing! Yes, I'm still working on it. Does this mean I'm lazy, extremely busy, or amazingly thorough? Hmmm...
I actually just got the last of my stuff from Utah just two weeks ago. You could say that it's been a long drawn out move. I think it's been driving Kody crazy how long it is taking me to unpack. I have an excuse -- when we moved, I just packed up everything, not knowing what I would actually need in my new house. So now that I'm here, I am going through everything and deciding if I really need it, want it, or have room for it. I have a big pile growing out in my garage for the yard sale my daughter Mariah and I will be having at the end of the summer.
Oh, Mariah, I miss her!! She is spending time away this summer with friends and relatives. She texted me this morning asking me when I'll be coming to see her. I texted back asking why, does she miss me already? She said "Yeah". It's so nice to know she still needs her mom. She will be sweet sixteen in a couple weeks, I can't believe how the time has flown. I'm not ready for her to grow up yet, and I'm not ready to soon be an empty nester. Love you, Punk! - Meri
(Courtesy of : http://parentables.howstuffworks.com/family-matters/unpacking-big-move-and-missing-mariah.html)

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

‘Sister Wives’ - Is Doing The Show Worth The Risk?


Now the title is even irking me. They are so protected, it’s not even funny. This was shown right before Season 2 started in March. 

As USUAL, as IF we DON’T know, we have to go through the mantra.. …I’m Meri, the first wife, one child, on down the Brown twisted line. Why must they do that EVERY time? Doesn’t EVERYONE know them by now? It’s like singing “The Twelve Days of Christmas”.

Sometimes, as at Oprah, Janelle looked great. On these, she looks strained and tired. Christine however looks very nice. She is very pretty with makeup on. Meri needs to learn to blend, honey, blend that makeup from the face to the neck. She’s not looking happy. I’ve noticed it many times on the show. Am I the only one that sees this? Robyn looks like she has false teeth sometimes to me. Watch her; she’s looking kooky on here. I know they have to wear the “underwears”, but must they always have to have two layers on? I have lots of pretty long sleeved shirts, don’t they? 

“When you were approached to do the reality show, was it something you said yes to right away, or was there a meeting?”  They are asked
Everybody was different, Kody responds. Janelle explains they really had a lot of discussion in the family, including the children.  Didn’t Anonymous teach us they were “chosen” to be the face of Polygamy? Meri explains the benefits outweighed the risks. Sadly, it doesn’t show on your face, Mer.

Look at all their faces when the moderator asks- about being basically the public face of polygamy, “Your kinda the faces of it now?”
Hmmhmmm say Kody with a weird face.

Christine elaborates how they just wanted to be real, how it really is. To show AMERICA THE TRUTH.
A little background on Christine’s truth. Christine is the true blue, need deep in the AUB polygamy aspect from every area in her life. Christine’s grandfather, AUB leader Rulon Allred, was shot at the command of her mother’s uncle, rival leader Ervil Lebaron. That’s happy polygamy life for you. Rulon’s family was awarded $52 million dollars in the largest wrongful death suit ever in Utah. Cha-Ching! I don't think they ever received it, not sure. Wonder how that played in her parents dynamics? “Your uncle killed my grandpa!!” How awful of a life is their “truth”.  Christine’s family comes from Short Creek, where there is so much intermarriage, according to Wikipedia they have  “the world's highest incidence of fumarase deficiency,  an extremely rare genetic condition which causes severe mental retardation. Geneticists attribute this to the prevalence of cousin marriages between descendants of two of the town's founders, Joseph Smith Jessop and John Y. Barlow; at least half the double community's roughly 8,000 inhabitants are descended from one or both. Christine seems so nice, but sadly, I believe she whole heartedly believes in her faith.

It’s scarier than even my crooked tree with drunken Uncle Ed.  Not to get on a rant - BUT - Might I mention that Christine’s grandfather is also a second cousin to Meri, grandfather to Robyn’s first husband, great grandpa to the Jessop kids, a second cousin and great grandson in law to Kody. Whew! In simple terms, they are all related to Christine’s grandfather, and therefore they were ALL related before any marriages, however distantly, with the exception of Janelle. Oh, and Kody’s grandmother was an Allred. Now I’ll shut up, so I can post my BIG genealogy pile in another post! But this was so dull I had to spice it up!

Back to the Video? TRUTH?  TELL US, did you run from the law, or did you not? Were those tears from the kids real or not? You guys knew Robyn, they didn't just "meet" her. Her ex had to let the kids on TV.  I’ll give Christine and Janelle this, they are the best speakers. And, you can’t blame Christine for believing in the only thing she knows.
As they stumble on, they explain that they were committed to the show before Robyn came along, and Robyn wasn’t fond of the idea when she met them. YEAH RIGHT. She heard, CHA CHING!!! She’s already a show hog, Twitter hog, etc.! Watch Janelle’s and Meri’s face as Robyn explains how she fell in love with the family before she fell in love with Kody, or how her kids fit in like a glove.  STONE FACED!HAHAHAHA


(Vid. Court. of Access Hollywood)

Sunday, July 3, 2011

Sister Wives - Open Discussion on Children Following your Faith

There has been much discussion on this blog about why the Brown children must go into polygamy according to the religion of the A.U.B, to get to heaven. Meri, Christine, and Janelle have all said they don't care, as long as the kids are happy. We've seen Robyn state she wants all the kids in the faith on the previews.
So I ask - What if your child did not follow you in your faith? How would the Brown children be any different than your child or my child that did not follow the same church you you belong to?

I have a Christian Church following friend that their daughter married a Catholic and got baptized within the church and goes now to the Catholic Church. As upsetting as that was for her, do you think she shuns her daughter? Of course not. Nor do I think the Browns will.

It's something that millions of families struggle with in their lifetime. Ultimately, God tells us to love all. And we should seek the good in all, no matter what. What if your child decided upon polygamy? Would you not still love and embrace them?

To me, there's nothing worse than people that act all high and mighty with their religion. I have family members that you would think their poots didn't stink they are so religious, yet, wouldn't HELP another family member for the life of them. And, God forbid, one be in some type of trouble, they'll get shunned to the hilt. (Esp. financial) To me, that's the worst. The exact opposite of what God would want you to do.

Reviewing old videos on the subject, only one thing really caught me off guard. Am I taking it too seriously? Watch this old video from season 1 where they are talking about the children. Kody says the children "will evolve". What do you think he means by that? What would you do if your child took up a religion that your opposed to? This doesn't have to be about the Browns, it can be your own experience.
Please discuss below!


Saturday, July 2, 2011

Christian Polygamy

This was taken, to be fair, showing the other side of the fence, from http://www.biblicalfamilies.org/. A Christian based Community that believes in Plural Marriage. This is not my view, however, feeling that we were getting a bit one sided, trying to be fair.

Been watching TLC's 'Sister Wives'?

Have you been surprised how loving, and normal, they seem? Would you be surprised to learn there are many non-Mormon Christians who have felt God prompting them to live this way? Maybe you are curious and trying to figure out if this lifestyle truly can work. Or maybe you are a believer in Christ and you are witnessing all of the practical benefits but still trying to figure out how to make sense of this in light of the Bible. But you are asking yourself “Does the Bible, and it's Author, accept this?" Read on.


In the show Kody Brown makes this statement: “Love is to be multiplied not divided.” The idea of marriage, or a union with a male and female, transcends all religious, cultural, and ethnic boundaries. People from every nation or sphere of the world join together and partner with one another in order to build a family. More than 80% of cultures throughout history have also practiced some level of polygamy.

What does God say?

But the real question is: does Jesus Christ, the Lord of the universe, approve of this type of family where one man joins with more than one woman? We at Biblical Families, an evangelical organization dedicated to historical Christianity, see that the Bible teaches and approves of this type of idea of love multiplying. Both the OT and NT teach that God is honored by this type of lifestyle.

Throughout the OT many of God’s holy men lived a lifestyle where they multiplied God’s love. Men like Moses the writer of the first five books of the Bible had two women at the same time in a union, Abraham, who had at least two and maybe three at the same time, Jacob who had four in a union, and numerous others like Gideon, King David, and King Solomon. Likewise, in one place in the OT God even presents himself as in a union with two wives (Ezekiel 23:1-5,7,11). ***Bloggers note, I DO NOT believe this is what is being said there...Comments? What do you think it means?

The NT never alters this idea of love. The theme of love is carried forth by Jesus Christ whose teachings along with the apostles verified this lifestyle as holy, normal, and to be accepted. The God-Man, Jesus Christ, even represents the three types of lifestyles in the Bible. He lived for awhile in a celibate condition, he then died, arose again, and then joined himself to the first church ever birthed in history, the Jerusalem church, which represents a monogamous relationship, and then as other church bodies were birthed he joined or united with them thus displaying a love relationship or union with those multiple members that make up his one body, or family (see 1 Cor. 12:-20,27; Eph. 5:25; 1 Cor. 11:2).

How can this work?

So how can one family have multiple wives in it and there be peace, harmony, joy, satisfaction, and the blessings of the Lord in that family?

Here at Biblical Families we are teaching and sharing with people how this is possible. In the Christian faith this is not only possible but a very real testimony of the power of grace and the Holy Spirit working in the lives of those that believe. As the Bible says, where the Spirit of the Lord is there will be the fruit of the Spirit which is “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control, against such things there is no law (Gal. 5:22).

So what is the answer to having a holy, harmonious, and God honoring marriage? The real issue is not how many wives are in the family. The deeper issue is and the focus the Bible has is upon the hearts of the members in the family. Is the head of the family, the man truly following Christ, loving like Christ, and leading as Christ leads? Is the lady or ladies under that man’s leadership following in the way we the saints follow Christ who loves his church? 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 describes the ultimate issue: “Love is patient and kind, love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.” So explore the website links here, examine some of the teaching articles for some in depth biblical instruction, and make some new friends who may encourage you on towards a life of faith, hope, and love (1 Cor. 13:13) in the Lord who loves you and died on the cross in order to give you true life (John 10:10), a life of peace, joy, and contentment in Him!
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We want to be clear: we are not Mormons, nor Muslims. We are Christians. We come from many different church backgrounds. We have no interest in underage or coercive marriages, or in any cult-like groups. We want to read the Bible for what it really SAYS, not what we have been incorrectly taught that it SHOULD say. We recognize that when half of all “Christian marriages” fail, and that rampant divorce and serial monogamy is considered preferable to actually following God’s Word, there is a problem.

**** I believe to each his own, but I don't believe that plural marriages always worked out so well in the bible, nor do they mention it says several times one man...one woman.  Mark me if I am wrong, but there are no plural marriages in the New Testament. Wasn't it to populate the earth? Could it serve a purpose now? It's not for me, but what do you think? 
Courtesy: http://www.biblicalfamilies.org/